I read it all the time. People write about resonance of a bass as if it is a desirable thing.
The physical / engineering definition of resonance is when the bass vibrates at the same frequency as the string, robbing energy (tone and/or sustain) from the string. Dead spots are due to resonance. I don't think that is what most on TB want in a bass or even mean by the term.
So, how do you define resonance? What does it sound like? How can you tell if a bass has it or not?
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I think that scientifically, resonance is exactly the opposite. For instance, I think about resonance when I read people using the "mwah" term.
en.wikipedia.org
The view of an Acoustical Physicist - I studied the Acoustics of musical instruments (precisely what we are talking about here) in college.
Basses have several types of resonances going on. A resonance is a situation where there is energy in a vibrating system, and it lasts for more than one cycle at a certain frequency - that means there is energy going back and forth between two forms.
In a string, there is kinetic energy (when a string is moving), and there is potential energy - when a string is at it's maximum excursion ,and stops for an instant in time, the string is stopped, but as it's displaced from it's rest position (it's stretched a bit) the energy is stored at that instant. A bit later, its moving again - the energy is going back and forth between kinetic energy and potential energy.
The neck on your bass does the same thing - you don't pluck it, but some of the energy in the string goes into the neck and body (more goes into the neck as it's less massive and less stiff). It vibrates back and forth, and just like the string it exchanges potential energy and kinetic energy.
The neck on your bass has multiple resonances - just like a string where you can play harmonics (resonances at multiple notes) a neck does a very similar thing - at varying points on the neck, there are places where it moves easily at various resonant frequencies, and places where it doesn't move easily. The places where it moves easily are called antinodes. When a string is vibrating at one of the neck's resonant frequencies, if the fret for that note on that string is at an antinode, you get reduced sustain - a "dead spot" if it's bad. When that happens, the string wants to resonate, but it's losing energy into the neck quickly, because the neck is easy to move at that point at that frequency. There are lot of conjectures on TB about how dead spots arise - this is the (well known) Physics behind that phenomenon.
Sustain is accomplished in this physical system by keeping energy in the string. When you read someone talk about how a bridge "couples energy into the body effectively", their understanding of the system is completely backwards - anything that couples energy from the string anywhere else will kill sustain, not enhance it.
Your pickups and the cable (and any other capacitance in the circuit) they are attached to also resonate. In that system, the energy goes between being stored in an electrical field in the capacitor to being stored in a magnetic field in the pole pieces of the pickup - just like in the physical resonator, energy is going back and forth. If you put enough resistance in that circuit, you damp that resonance, so it rings for a shorter time.
If you make yourself a bass with a roasted neck and a roasted body (the neck is more important), you will notice that it "rings". Roasting wood crystallizes resins (which are mechanical resistances), so the mechanical system of a bass with roasted wood (which doesn't have those resistances damping it) resonate longer than one with regular wood. Yes, you can hear this in the output of the bass - it is most obvious if you tap/strike the back of the neck. Pickups do not respond to just the vibrations of the string - they respond to the relative motions between the body (where the pickup is attached) and the string
- if the body is moving (it is*) that movement changes the distance between the body and the string, so motions of the body are, without a doubt, heard by the pickups.
* Proof that the wood in your bass is moving is easy to show - a contact tuner (snark, etc) will work pretty much anywhere on a solid bodied instrument - as those tuners work by sensing vibrations of what they are attached to, you can easily demonstrate to yourself that the wood in your instrument is vibrating.
Mwah is not from resonance - mwah happens because the end condition of the string where your finger is is different - it buzzes a bit on every cycle, generating harmonics that last because they are being created by a mechanism that is stealing energy from the string's vibration - you lose sustain on the fundamental, but you simultaneously create some ongoing harmonics with some of that energy .