I think the biggest disservice bass players do themselves is to never learn the scales and how to manipulate them. If you learn the major scale and the attenting modes, learn the arrpegios within those modes, you will be able to memorize most pop songs in about 5 minutes or less. A "hard" song can be learned in maybe 30 minutes tops. A blues based song will take maybe 30 seconds. That's becasue most pop songs are only in one key. All of the different chord changes in the song are simply chords based on the modes of that key. If you know how to manipulate the key, you've got the entire bassline, fills and riffs right there.
Blues is both weirder and easier because all (or most) of the chords in a blues based song are dominant and so doesn't follow typical "classic" western music theory. But if you know in advance that they are all dominant, then there's no problem.
These constant short cuts (tabs, learning by ear by simply chasing notes) and never taking the time to know what you are playing at all times is the longest road to learning songs you can imagine.
Once you learn how to use scales and modes, playing along with CDs and the radio by ear is a breeze because you know how to move around the scale. All music, and especially a bassline, is just notes of a scale.