I recommend that you stop reading threads here and go to various stores and play as many different basses as you can lay your sweaty little mitts on. This forum is fantastic in many ways; however it can spark a rather obsessive desire to acquire gear for no other reason than to ACQUIRE GEAR! Patience, sir, is a virtue. Eventually, you will find a bass that truly speaks to you. If you are truly fortunate, you may also be able to afford it.
Well that GAS syndrome is something that's slowly been building up in me for a couple years, but only in the last couple months has it reached critical mass! But you're right, this forum doesn't help ease the GAS at all, only makes it stronger!
I actually have been going up to the stores and also reading the threads here for opinions as backup. I just spent another two hours up at GC today in fact! I'm starting to get to know some of the sales guys up there personally! After buying my amp used I decided that I'm a little more open to buying a bass used. So when I was at GC today I mainly focused on the Music Man Stingray 5 w/two pickups, not just one.. That thing felt smooth as butter in my hands.. GC price was $1650 or so.. Hopefully, but doubtfully I would be able to find something like that used for $8-900.. Who knows..