Here's an example of a narrow margin (7mm) fading into a point where the margin is more like 11mm
Thanks Keiran. Looks like he just got out a straight edge and made a bee-line to the center of the corner. But moot now, because...
I made a considered, thoughtful, highly intellectual decision: I flipped a few coins and the flat corner won two out of three. And that's about where my head is too, two out of three, so I'm just going with it. And about 8mm in from the edge.
Have the proverbial two steps back to navigate first, though.
Made a really dumb choice previously about how to angle the edges above the break: I made them perpendicular to the back below the break rather than perpendicular to the plane of the break itself. Was so caught up in aesthetics, totally missed the fact that I'd need a beefy edge (rather than a ramp) to guide on later, whether using the router or a purfling marker. Dumb, dumb, dumb...and the irony being that it would have been a whole lot easier to do it the right way.
Marked it out last night, reducing the edge overhang from 5mm to 4mm to make it work (plans called for 3mm anyway). Heading to workshop now and if it doesn't look glaringly wrong with fresh eyes, I'll get the new edging done today and purfling tomorrow.
Thanks again, Chet and Ortsom.