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So i got walked out on, on a date...

Shoot dude, if you're looking for women who are stable and have logical thought processes, you might as well go gay. I'm currently in a position where things are getting pretty shaky because it's hard to keep her happy. What worked on Monday doesn't work on Tuesday. :eyebrow: Somehow this is my fault. Like a dog, there are 4-5 things that will always make me happy without fail. If ya ask what makes her happy, "lots of things". "Like what???" "I don't know, lots of things."

So, get used to it or date men.
 
I haven't been walked out on, but I've been set up to walk out.

Girlfriend of two years asked me to go out with her at a diner, said she'd drive herself because she's not coming from home. Okay. So I go, she'd just gotten back from a week long vacation in France and Switzerland (where her ex-boyfriend lives), gives me my birthday present (was gone the week before my birthday)... it was a $3 Swiss Army Knife.

Needless to say, she told me she cheated on me while over there. I immediately dropped $10 on the table for my pancakes and walked out. She was smart enough not to call and try to explain.
 
I think Ive been walked out on somewhere in my relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together a little over two years , and its hard to remember. Im pretty sure its happened through. My gf would often get mad at similiar situations. Girls do it sometimes. I dont think its necessary to break up with her. It really is hard to know the nature of your relationship from one situation. It often is not the right thing to do to go to random guys and ask them about relationships and what you should do. Most times they will just reply 'break up with her' or '**** her and break up with her' because its not really their problem and its not worth their time to give a high quality response. You guys could have a very good relationship and we might not know it. Dont take others advice too seriously. Only YOU know what to do.
 
Cut your losses and dump her. It seems like her way of saying I want to break up and be free when I go to school. Women don't just do things, they almost always have a plan.

100% true, this happened to one of my best friends. Except she didn't walk out on a date, she was just a complete whore (mods if thats a bad word then im sorry). You get the idea, then she went to college.

thats how that went anyway, or at least its the word on the street.
 
I am pretty upset at her for pulling a stunt like that, i dont think we will be dating for much longer.

That should be an understatement. That should be your LAST date with her. (And WHY did she have your wallet? That is a big mistake!) No one should have to put up with that. Her behavior is not likely to change, so dump her. Now.
 
I was walked out on years ago by a girl during dinner, but I instigated it by telling her straight out that I did not want to "be with her". We weren't serious, and she wanted to be, but I didn't. Was simple as that.

She left and I finished my meal, had a beer, paid and went home.
 
She's looking for moral high-ground. She wants you to break up with her so she can go to school and sleep around with other dudes or chicks guilt-free.This is text book, dude. Comes with one half of a relationship going away to school. I've seen it happen many, many times.

Give her what she wants. And good God, be happy about it. Not only will you be dropping a high-maintenance broad with passive-aggression issues (a lethal combination), but that opens up a world of possibility for you too.

Plenty of chicks out there who'd rather walk out of a restaurant after a meal and on your arm.
 
She's looking for moral high-ground. She wants you to break up with her so she can go to school and sleep around with other dudes or chicks guilt-free.This is text book, dude. Comes with one half of a relationship going away to school. I've seen it happen many, many times.

Give her what she wants. And good God, be happy about it. Not only will you be dropping a high-maintenance broad with passive-aggression issues (a lethal combination), but that opens up a world of possibility for you too.

Plenty of chicks out there who'd rather walk out of a restaurant after a meal and on your arm.

sad but true..