A friend of mine 'discovered' he was gay after he was grown up. Like (I gather) a lot of guys who make this 'discovery' later in life, he didn't feel it was enough to just be gay, at first. He had to someone find a way to be gay 'AT you'. You know the way I mean, right? The people whose orientation can't just be their orientation? It has to somehow be a statement.
He got a tattoo of a few chords on a treble clef staff with a rainbow over them. He was at least fairly subtle about it, comparatively, The chords were F, A, and G, because there isn't a Y chord.
The tattoo guy was halfway done and said "These notes say 'fag' on your arm." And Marcus says "Well now I know you can read music."