I have a completely different opinion than pretty much everyone else in this thread:
1) Don't be a musician when you're with the band. You can be a musician on your own time. Be a good bandmate, have fun, and hang loose, make friends, flirt with chicks, be a clown, and don't take yourselves too seriously.
2) Jam with your friends, don't jam with douchebags.
3) Take gigs that sound fun, don't do stuff just because you're supposed to.
4) For that matter, you don't have to play anything or with anyone you don't want to. Just realize that other people might not like what you want to play, so don't be all pissy if you play some awesome Jaco solo and all you get back are yawns and blank stares.
5) Finally, don't look for advice too much, because most people that will answer you don't really know jack $#&%. Learn by doing things, or not doing things, or watching other people do things (few things in life are as rewarding as watching someone else *$^% up doing something that you were on the fence about).
Hope that helps, but it probably won't
Good luck!
1) Don't be a musician when you're with the band. You can be a musician on your own time. Be a good bandmate, have fun, and hang loose, make friends, flirt with chicks, be a clown, and don't take yourselves too seriously.
2) Jam with your friends, don't jam with douchebags.
3) Take gigs that sound fun, don't do stuff just because you're supposed to.
4) For that matter, you don't have to play anything or with anyone you don't want to. Just realize that other people might not like what you want to play, so don't be all pissy if you play some awesome Jaco solo and all you get back are yawns and blank stares.
5) Finally, don't look for advice too much, because most people that will answer you don't really know jack $#&%. Learn by doing things, or not doing things, or watching other people do things (few things in life are as rewarding as watching someone else *$^% up doing something that you were on the fence about).
Hope that helps, but it probably won't
Good luck!

