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Im coming out of the closet...

and its full of womens clothes. Ladys and Gentlemen I am a crossdresser. Ive been wanting to come out with it for so long, Ive even hinted at it a few times. I just got scared, but Ive finally worked up the courage. I know its gonna freak half of you out, but it also makes for a good discussion and it feels liek a weight has been lifted from me. Im curious about if anyone else on here does it, or knows soemone who does. If so you dont have to be public about it, though I encourage it. PM me and we will talk. I know some of yall arent gonna meet this with possitive comment, and thats OK. Just be respectful and if you crack a few jokes thats alright by me. I talked about this with Major Metal before I did it, so the thread wont get closed as long as it doesnt get out of hand. LIBERATION IS AWESOME. Love all of you.
 
and its full of womens clothes. Ladys and Gentlemen I am a crossdresser. Ive been wanting to come out with it for so long, Ive even hinted at it a few times. I just got scared, but Ive finally worked up the courage. I know its gonna freak half of you out, but it also makes for a good discussion and it feels liek a weight has been lifted from me. Im curious about if anyone else on here does it, or knows soemone who does. If so you dont have to be public about it, though I encourage it. PM me and we will talk. I know some of yall arent gonna meet this with possitive comment, and thats OK. Just be respectful and if you crack a few jokes thats alright by me. I talked about this with Major Metal before I did it, so the thread wont get closed as long as it doesnt get out of hand. LIBERATION IS AWESOME. Love all of you.

Perhaps you can write TB's official cross-dressing guide?:hiding::D

Just kidding. Good for you coming out.
 
and its full of womens clothes. Ladys and Gentlemen I am a crossdresser. Ive been wanting to come out with it for so long, Ive even hinted at it a few times. I just got scared, but Ive finally worked up the courage. I know its gonna freak half of you out, but it also makes for a good discussion and it feels liek a weight has been lifted from me. Im curious about if anyone else on here does it, or knows soemone who does. If so you dont have to be public about it, though I encourage it. PM me and we will talk. I know some of yall arent gonna meet this with possitive comment, and thats OK. Just be respectful and if you crack a few jokes thats alright by me. I talked about this with Major Metal before I did it, so the thread wont get closed as long as it doesnt get out of hand. LIBERATION IS AWESOME. Love all of you.

:hyper::hyper::hyper:
Come over here and give me a hug!
 
Serious question:

Why do you cross dress? I've always wondered this. Is it a gay thing? A transexual thing? Something else?

I've always wondered if it were possible to be a straight cross dresser. Clearly many are doing it because they are trans, but what about the rest? Do you want to be a woman, or do you just get a thrill from the clothes?
 
Serious question:

Why do you cross dress? I've always wondered this. Is it a gay thing? A transexual thing? Something else?

I've always wondered if it were possible to be a straight cross dresser. Clearly many are doing it because they are trans, but what about the rest? Do you want to be a woman, or do you just get a thrill from the clothes?


As long as it's not a Norman Bates thing, why does it matter?
 
Why do you cross dress? I've always wondered this. Is it a gay thing? A transexual thing? Something else?

I've always wondered if it were possible to be a straight cross dresser. Clearly many are doing it because they are trans, but what about the rest? Do you want to be a woman, or do you just get a thrill from the clothes?

I do get a thrill out of it, I also feel more comfortable doing it, plus I love heels and make up. Always have, even as a little kid I identified with females more than males (i.e. I play as female charectors in video game, and also when I used ot do pretend stuff with childhood friends Id pretend to be female). This occured long before I even had sexual thoughts, and no Im not gay. Most Crossdressers arent gay actually. I just feel way more intune with my female side. I took the BEM gender inventory test, which is a psychological test to determine gender traits in an individual. I scored 82%female 18%male.