heres how i have my monster set up on my p-bass:
neck and bridge into a 3 way on/off/on dpdt
middle pup is always activated and unaffected by the switch
all 3 pups go into a 2 way series/parallel dpdt switch
all of this then goes into my Noll 4 band preamp w/ 2 way active/passive dpdt switch, not shown
the p pup can be solo'ed at any time when the 3 way is in the middle position but cannot be solo'ed in series mode
i have it this way because even with all the mess i put into it it is still a p bass and i like the tone, everything else is ment to supplement this
i have dimarzios as well, pretty much the same except they are the basic p/j set and the neck is a SD quarter pound single coil. this wiring actually works except for a minor issue which i am sorting out, you might wanna check my thread on that subject
this is a very possible setup and depending on what you want out of your guitar you can wire with a 3 or a 5 way, the series parallel switch is very cool and adds versitility. hope this gives you a little confidence.