What is your feeling about bands that have a music stand, or stands on stage? Personally I think it borders on douchebaggery. The only exception being a jazz trio or something along that line. But for any other genre, get the music stand off the stage!. A cheat sheet on the floor, or someplace inconspicuous OK, but music stand? No.
... Still I see it all of the time ... and find it very distracting to a pro-level performance!
... It comes off like a sales clerk on her cell phone ...