...cool that you're naturally interested in sounding as good as possible -with that quirk alone you're ahead of the curve ...perhaps I'm generalizing a bit but it seems that many of us bassists are the ones that have interest in getting the bands 'sound & mix' perfect -for me it started around 1980, there was a older bootleg recording about to be released, a 1973 'live' Black Sabbath concert, since we loved their 1st, 2nd and 4th albums we assumed 'live' would be even heavier...I finally got the record, only to be stunned at how weak, loose and sloppy it sounded, almost a betrayal since I wouldn't dare have shown it to others as with their earlier 'studio' material. Anyway a few months later Rush releases "Exit stage left" -a live offering from their 1980/81' "Moving Pictures" tour -listening in decent headphones, the first song I happened to play was "La Villa Strangiato" (picked because I never heard it before). In one of those 'eureka' moments I was struck at how "a deep thud mixed with a nasally smack' enhanced not only Pearts playing but instantly took a good song and turned it into a great song -basically it was a "so THATS how you're supposed to sound live" kind of thing...at that time the only way to achieve this at a local level was to build up a tri-amped pa which as many know is 3 independent amplifiers each running a portion of audio frequency range to a speaker best suited for it -basically the 'thud' portion of that kick never interferes with the 'smack' which in fact mixes perfectly with vocals while stunningly clean cymbals shimmer over the whole thing -it seems kind of logical that if you're an original band 'only' you better not only play well but sound pretty memorable, other then friends and such you can't always keep peoples attention on songs they've never heard -an air moving punch mixed with sparkling clean cymbals isn't a bad frame for a band to fit in and if mixed well tends to sound like a top shelf home stereo on steroids.