Sorry, just had to vent...
So, I wouldn't call this guy a thief, per se, he's in my band with me - I'd go to war with him, and some nights feel like I have. HOWEVER, everytime I get a new guitar cable, extension cord, music stand, guitar stand (all 'utility' items, that everyone has, and no one can say FOR SURE which is whose), the one I take home after the gig looks mysteriously old, beat up and poorly used, while the one in HIS gear bag looks brand new just like mine... ahem, like mine USED to.
The first time it happens, you think, nah, maybe I'm mistaken, or maybe he just grabbed mine by mistake. But after a few shows and a few pieces of kit 'mysteriously age'...
So, I wouldn't call this guy a thief, per se, he's in my band with me - I'd go to war with him, and some nights feel like I have. HOWEVER, everytime I get a new guitar cable, extension cord, music stand, guitar stand (all 'utility' items, that everyone has, and no one can say FOR SURE which is whose), the one I take home after the gig looks mysteriously old, beat up and poorly used, while the one in HIS gear bag looks brand new just like mine... ahem, like mine USED to.
The first time it happens, you think, nah, maybe I'm mistaken, or maybe he just grabbed mine by mistake. But after a few shows and a few pieces of kit 'mysteriously age'...