Okay before I get on with this (please don't laugh at my age) but I'm 13 and my guitarist is 14. Well already we've gone through 2 bassist and 2 drummers (I was one of them, but I didn't want to do it anymore so now I'm vocals) And he is being a total ass about things. Firstly he only wants to play deathmetal and I don't want that, he is tightly shut to any suggestions or compromises I have to offer. A qoute from him is " No death growling, no band". Now I have found three people, goldmines, all of them, and well one of them I'm very concerned about because she is just, whoah, talent dripping everywhere, writes amazing lyrics and sings beautifully and wants to learn to play bass, has a knack for picking up things fairly fast. He dosen't want her in the band and he won't supply me with a decent reason. I have come fairly close to telling him to go to hell and I'll start my own band. Really hes not that valuble himself, except for his guitar playing skills. His lyrics are horrible (if you like I can supply you with some) and he can't sing ( he didn't want me to be vocals at first because hes a glory hound) hes being a control freak and an incompedent ass. I'm open to any suggestions that'll get him to come around.