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A soppy relationship thread...you may laugh!

LCM wanna know something about thoughts of endind yourself? That is BS and may be one of the most stupid things Ive heard (and Ive heard a LOT of them).

Yeah I know that Im not saying it in a nice way but believe that we all that have read this thread thinks about that but Im just saying what I think in a plain and direct way.

So it must be around 4pm in England so go to sleep for 4 or 5 hours then get up, go to the closest bar and get drunk. Everything (but your head) will be better tomorrow ;).
 
It doesn't bother me. But I'm just worried it's more serious. She always said 'I was once offered anti depressants by the doctor but I don't want to take drugs to make me happy'. So why would she do drugs? If she's doing something illegal, is it not also my duty to inform the police?

You said yourself that you have not personally witnessed her in posession of illegal drugs, or given any indication that she was using, other than a off-handed comment that may even been intended as sarcastic. I understand that you think you're trying to protect her from future trouble, but at this point you have no positive proof of posession or any indication that there is - or ever will be - an issue. I can't see how calling the police at this point will benefit either one of you.

So it must be around 4pm in England so go to sleep for 4 or 5 hours then get up, go to the closest bar and get drunk. Everything (but your head) will be better tomorrow ;).

I have to say this is bad advice (IMO). People with depression issues will often crawl deeper into their hole when swimming in a bottle of booze. Going out an having a good time with a bunch of friends is great, but sitting at a bar with the intention of getting wasted is a bad idea, in this case.

LCM - You HAVE to put your focus on things that make YOU happy - music, friends, whatever. I understand that you're hurting and confused over your relationship with your ex, but trying harder to hold on or "fix" things often has an opposite result. Love WILL find you again, but you need to find yourself first.