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A thread with me complaining.

Welcome to me two years ago. You'll find this sort of thing happens a lot to people our age. Things change, and then you realize how much better off you are.

The only problem I'm seeing here is you. You go so far as to claim that she was basically your life. Theres your problem. Get out there and do your own thing, make your own life, and find a girl that fits in there with you who does her own things.
 
I could argue everything you all say until we're blue in the face, it doesn't change the situation. When I say she was perfect, I mean it literally, and so does everyone else. When I say perfect for me, I mean it in the same way. I don't want to get laid by some hot chick, or some cool chick. I want to be in love with a hot, rich, affectionate model who is crazy about me again, and who wants to jump my bones every minute of every day. Someone who is perfect in bed, someone who is perfect in school and has two jobs and wants to spend every hour she can relaxing with me. Sex is boring when there's no love, it's just not as exciting for me. Being with girls up here would only make it hurt more because I still love her. I have no friends, I have no band, I have no job, I have nothing since I moved here. But then again....I had nothing since I lost her in the first place. She literally was everything to me, and still is. I can't get past that no matter what I've tried.

I'm a damn trainwreck, it's pretty rediculous. Sorry guys I shouldn't have even posted this, I just really don't have anyone else to talk to other than her. I talk to her a lot and it hurts me a lot, but if I stop talking to her it hurts more.

Your expectations are too high.

Get over yourself and you'll soon get over her.