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A thread with me complaining.

#22
I could argue everything you all say until we're blue in the face, it doesn't change the situation. When I say she was perfect, I mean it literally, and so does everyone else. When I say perfect for me, I mean it in the same way. I don't want to get laid by some hot chick, or some cool chick. I want to be in love with a hot, rich, affectionate model who is crazy about me again, and who wants to jump my bones every minute of every day. Someone who is perfect in bed, someone who is perfect in school and has two jobs and wants to spend every hour she can relaxing with me. Sex is boring when there's no love, it's just not as exciting for me. Being with girls up here would only make it hurt more because I still love her. I have no friends, I have no band, I have no job, I have nothing since I moved here. But then again....I had nothing since I lost her in the first place. She literally was everything to me, and still is. I can't get past that no matter what I've tried.

I'm a damn trainwreck, it's pretty rediculous. Sorry guys I shouldn't have even posted this, I just really don't have anyone else to talk to other than her. I talk to her a lot and it hurts me a lot, but if I stop talking to her it hurts more.
 
#23
Todd Stanley said:
I could argue everything you all say until we're blue in the face, it doesn't change the situation. When I say she was perfect, I mean it literally, and so does everyone else. When I say perfect for me, I mean it in the same way. I don't want to get laid by some hot chick, or some cool chick. I want to be in love with a hot, rich, affectionate model who is crazy about me again, and who wants to jump my bones every minute of every day. Someone who is perfect in bed, someone who is perfect in school and has two jobs and wants to spend every hour she can relaxing with me. Sex is boring when there's no love, it's just not as exciting for me. Being with girls up here would only make it hurt more because I still love her. I have no friends, I have no band, I have no job, I have nothing since I moved here. But then again....I had nothing since I lost her in the first place. She literally was everything to me, and still is. I can't get past that no matter what I've tried.

I'm a damn trainwreck, it's pretty rediculous. Sorry guys I shouldn't have even posted this, I just really don't have anyone else to talk to other than her. I talk to her a lot and it hurts me a lot, but if I stop talking to her it hurts more.
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Buck up camper. Man Law 111: No Whining!!!!.
 
#26
Todd Stanley said:
I need an asian to cheer me up!
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Damn straight.

Here's one. A korean beauty.

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#31
Todd Stanley said:
I'm obviously kidding about asians.
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You're obviously kidding yourself that you're kidding. In reality, you already have the nets thrown overboard and just feel depressed and confused since you don't have anything in sights yet and aren't sure if you are going to get laid within the next couple of months. With the first catch, you'll be back in the game.
 
#33
To put it in less than the beating around the bushes posts from others......

Stop being a wuss.

I've read your posts in the past, and it's pretty much all downers, and "what will I do if". Dude, you're 20. I know that seems like an eternity being fresh out of the teen years, but it isn't. I married at 30, and sucked career wise until 31-32. Stop worrying about tomorrow, and enjoy today. Spending your life either stewing in the past, or worrying about tomorrow is no way to live......it's a never ending cycle.

If you consider yourself a failure, why would you expect anyone else to feel any differently? Get right with yourself. If this means counseling, do it. If this means prescribed happy medications, do it. It doesn't matter the means, the point is YOU need to get right with YOURSELF before anyone else is going to see much.

So take this however you'd like, but it's time to man up and do something about it other than singing the poor me song. We all have entries into that song.........step up and do something about it.

Jobs, women, and LIFE all change. Make it about you.
 
#34
Todd Stanley said:
I could argue everything you all say until we're blue in the face, it doesn't change the situation. When I say she was perfect, I mean it literally, and so does everyone else. When I say perfect for me, I mean it in the same way. I don't want to get laid by some hot chick, or some cool chick. I want to be in love with a hot, rich, affectionate model who is crazy about me again, and who wants to jump my bones every minute of every day. Someone who is perfect in bed, someone who is perfect in school and has two jobs and wants to spend every hour she can relaxing with me. Sex is boring when there's no love, it's just not as exciting for me. Being with girls up here would only make it hurt more because I still love her. I have no friends, I have no band, I have no job, I have nothing since I moved here. But then again....I had nothing since I lost her in the first place. She literally was everything to me, and still is. I can't get past that no matter what I've tried.

I'm a damn trainwreck, it's pretty rediculous. Sorry guys I shouldn't have even posted this, I just really don't have anyone else to talk to other than her. I talk to her a lot and it hurts me a lot, but if I stop talking to her it hurts more.
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Sounds like you were in a really bloody unhealthy relationship, man... Don't you know it's a recipe for disaster when you make your entire life a woman?

Women are supposed to enhance our lives, not become them.

And this girl is no more perfect than you are. I'd bet my next paycheck on that.
 
#35
" I'm obviously kidding about asians. I'm just basically putting on a front because I know that nothing is really going to help me feel better. Maybe time will, there's a lot of it ahead. But I'm not feeling hopefull. "


Sounds like you were more into her than she was you...no offence...I am just going by your posts. Could it be you haven't met too many people because you were spending too much time in this relationship?

Montreal is a great city for meeting people. Plenty of people looking to jam or just hang out. It's going to be tough because it is Christmas but time really does have a way of lessening the hurt. Meeting new people also helps ;)
 
#38
Tim Cole said:
To put it in less than the beating around the bushes posts from others......

Stop being a wuss.

I've read your posts in the past, and it's pretty much all downers, and "what will I do if". Dude, you're 20. I know that seems like an eternity being fresh out of the teen years, but it isn't. I married at 30, and sucked career wise until 31-32. Stop worrying about tomorrow, and enjoy today. Spending your life either stewing in the past, or worrying about tomorrow is no way to live......it's a never ending cycle.

If you consider yourself a failure, why would you expect anyone else to feel any differently? Get right with yourself. If this means counseling, do it. If this means prescribed happy medications, do it. It doesn't matter the means, the point is YOU need to get right with YOURSELF before anyone else is going to see much.

So take this however you'd like, but it's time to man up and do something about it other than singing the poor me song. We all have entries into that song.........step up and do something about it.

Jobs, women, and LIFE all change. Make it about you.
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Yup..........
 
#39
negative obsessing thinking will not help your situation the slightest.

you said you have no one to talk to, so go see a counselor, it'll help.
don't expect to cure yourself in a day it's probably gonna take some time.
And dont' let your whole self worth be based on whether you have a hot girlfriend.
life is too short to be miserable.
 
#40
Stop being a wuss.


In the words of the Eagles....



I turn on the tube and what do I see
A whole lotta people cryin' "Don't blame me"
They point their crooked little fingers ar everybody else
Spend all their time feelin' sorry for themselves
Victim of this, victim of that
Your momma's too thin; your daddy's too fat

Get over it
Get over it
All this whinin' and cryin' and pitchin' a fit
Get over it, get over it

You say you haven't been the same since you had your little crash
But you might feel better if I gave you some cash
The more I think about it, Old Billy was right
Let's kill all the lawyers, kill 'em tonight
You don't want to work, you want to live like a king
But the big, bad world doesn't owe you a thing

Get over it
Get over it
If you don't want to play, then you might as well split
Get over it, Get over it

It's like going to confession every time I hear you speak
You're makin' the most of your losin' streak
Some call it sick, but I call it weak

You drag it around like a ball and chain
You wallow in the guilt; you wallow in the pain
You wave it like a flag, you wear it like a crown
Got your mind in the gutter, bringin' everybody down
Complain about the present and blame it on the past
I'd like to find your inner child and kick its little ass

Get over it
Get over it
All this bitchin' and moanin' and pitchin' a fit
Get over it, get over it

Get over it
Get over it
It's gotta stop sometime, so why don't you quit
Get over it, get over it
 

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