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About to have to sell out......

So i'm 26 and I finally graduated with my Bach degree in May. been having a bit of trouble landing that first job but have recently gotten the inside track on a possible position with a VERY large company. the only problem is that i have to go CLEAN CUT, which means I gotta cut the hair and shave the beard i've been sporting for 9 years....... and that sucks:crying: my wife of almost 6 years has only seen me beardless once and that was before we started dating..

im not really in a position to not go for this but it just hate having to change for a job.:rollno:
 
A trimmed and tidy beard in no way would offend a hiring manager. Especially if you acknowledge the dress code, stating you would conform once you are hired. Long hair is a hit or miss. Probably a miss considering the size and corporate culture you eluded to. However, if you are not a guarantee for the position you can gamble. I personally had long hair and a beard when interviewing for my current company. I trimmed my hair to just above my shoulders, pulled it back (no part in the middle) and drastically trimmed my beard. I used copious amounts of hair spray to hold the fly-aways down so as to look as neat as possible. My appearance was discussed as an after thought in the sense of "hey I want to hire this guy, but I need to break the bad news to him, how will he react?".

If you have an inside track....then you know someone close to the company. Get their opinion, as they would be the most informed.

Sorry man, I know how it is to have an attachment to your hair/beard, but in the long run, if you have to cut it, you might find it liberating (like being able to jump out of the shower without taking 20 minutes to comb through the rat nest ;))
 
So i'm 26 and I finally graduated with my Bach degree in May. been having a bit of trouble landing that first job but have recently gotten the inside track on a possible position with a VERY large company. the only problem is that i have to go CLEAN CUT, which means I gotta cut the hair and shave the beard i've been sporting for 9 years....... and that sucks:crying: my wife of almost 6 years has only seen me beardless once and that was before we started dating..

im not really in a position to not go for this but it just hate having to change for a job.:rollno:

I don't see the problem. Much of life is presenting yourself in a way that facilitates business or relationships with others. You're just joining the real world.

You will CONSTANTLY change as you go through life - some changes for the best, some not. Your looks and habits will also change. Welcome to employment! :D
 
So i'm 26 and I finally graduated with my Bach degree in May. been having a bit of trouble landing that first job but have recently gotten the inside track on a possible position with a VERY large company. the only problem is that i have to go CLEAN CUT, which means I gotta cut the hair and shave the beard i've been sporting for 9 years....... and that sucks:crying: my wife of almost 6 years has only seen me beardless once and that was before we started dating..

im not really in a position to not go for this but it just hate having to change for a job.:rollno:

If you want the job, you do what they want. It's that simple. If you start your own company, you can do what you want.