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About to have to sell out......

comicbookguy95 said:
So i'm 26 and I finally graduated with my Bach degree in May. been having a bit of trouble landing that first job but have recently gotten the inside track on a possible position with a VERY large company. the only problem is that i have to go CLEAN CUT, which means I gotta cut the hair and shave the beard i've been sporting for 9 years....... and that sucks:crying: my wife of almost 6 years has only seen me beardless once and that was before we started dating..

im not really in a position to not go for this but it just hate having to change for a job.:rollno:

I had long hair all the way through college and university. Trust me: getting a haircut will hurt for two weeks, then you'll never go back.
 
Nobody who works for someone else should think it's their place to make a fashion statement with clothes or hair, unless that's specifically why they were hired. Remember- you represent the company you work for and if you leave a customer/potential customer with a bad impression, it's gonna be curtains for you.

"Sell out"? When did you develop a following for the principle of keeping your hair forever? Does your hair define who or what you are? Who do you think you are, Jimi Hendrix? :hiding:
 
This will,not be the last job you'll have to clean up for. Get over it. Been there. done that. Get th job first, then scope out who sports the longer hairand beards.

Who knows, Your wife may prefer you w/o all the hair. Just remember to be clean shaven before you get busy.

It also costs money to keep your hair properly trimmed and for razors. I get my closest shave in the shower with the Gilette vibrating 5 blade razor and Oil of Olay or Camay soap.
 
It would only be selling out if your new company did not accept your right to support Movember.

Just remember that you don't have to be clean cut and pursue that job. You don't HAVE to. I know a VP at a 500 million USD footwear company with a mohawk. He found the right place to work for him.
 
It's all just a game, after first impressions people will get to know who you really are.
I had a funny exepreince at Macy's recently. I am not exactly Mr. GQ, I have a grey beard and I usually wear old jeans, boots and maybe a faded cowboy shirt or t-shirt. There was an older very well dressed man who looked like he worked at the store. He looked like he had never had dirt under his fingernails in his entire life.When I asked him if he worked there he said no and seemed very offended that I would even ask him. I went about my business and looked for shoes. When I was leaving I saw Mr. Snooty Patootie waiting on a customer. We locked eyes for a second and I could see the fear in his eyes. I just smiled and headed down the escalator. I figure he didn't like my looks or was on his break. I wasn't offended in fact the whole thing still amuses me.