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A lot of people are way too mealy mouthed these days. I used to do open mic nights with my bass at my local. I started playing with the house band but they seemed to have a very limited repertoire so I moved on to another open mic regular as he was doing some punk stuff. After a few sessions with him he made excuse that his friend who drummed for him wasn't comfortable with punk rock so that went west. My last opening was with a shadows tribute band. I played a few sessions with them then they messed me round too. Even if I lacked technical skills or experience they could have least given me proper feed back so I had stuff to work on but no. So I know where you are coming from. And no, it's not good for your confidence,I agree.Don't sweat it. Sometimes things just don't click and it's not necessarily a matter of it being anyone's fault. Part of the reason it's so special when musicians click together is that it's more rare than most people would guess. If there's something you know you could have done better then take your experience as a learning experience and go from there. If not then just brush it off and keep going.

that. A few things happened & I started to doubt myself, lost confidence & did different things for a long while & the only music I did was fiddle with my acoustic