I suspect we might be contrasting the experiences of somebody who designs Apple hardware and somebody who provides tech support for an office full of beige box PCs.
My musical instrument amp experience dates back over 50 years.
There is a wide range of design and parts quality. Not everything is done well. Certainly modern components are better than they've ever been. Current designs are magnitudes better than vintage ones.
The OP has a consistent issue with different amps. The problem is best broken down and each related part of the system examined. Start with the simple and obvious things to try.
The most obvious link is the cable. The strain on it. Some cables have plugs that are smaller where the contact points are. Some cables (monster is one example) with larger oddly shaped tips that are known to stretch out jack tip contact points over time.
Important questions for the OP:
Are all the cables the same make.
Do the 1/4" plugs look the same?
Has a new cable been tried?
Do the cables just run down to the floor and snake across?
Is there a sharp bend at the amps input jack?
When playing, does movement ever pull on the plug/ jack?
Could a child or someone else be tugging on the cable from time to time?
Do they ever walk on the cables?
There are a lot of possibilities to consider.