My mom's boyfriend of about 10 years is finally planning on getting engaged. He's been coming over for dinner just about every night and I think we make a pretty good family unit. The issue is that every single night he asks if I'm alright. If I get up to use the bathroom I can hear him ask my mom if them holding hands has upset me. Even when I'm in the room he is always asking "do I need another soda? Do I want another sandwich? Am I okay?" We went to the farmer's market yesterday and I got some cheese, mom's bf got some cheese dip and let me try it, than left the one I like at my house. I can get that he's doing all this so that I'll like him, but I already love him. He's been in my life since I was 9, he's the closest thing to a father figure I know and I'm super excited to call him and my mom "my parents". These questions are getting annoying and my waistline will be in danger if I keep giving in*. *I just polished off that cheese dip in 25 hours.