I'm 52The reason people want to talk about the name is that it is a made up thing from the 90's or 2000's and those of us who were around when this music was current don't find it congruent with any sort of experience we had as music listeners. It's hella annoying.
There were few categories for music back then; radio stations didn't start really targeting specific demographics until the late 70's and 80's and the early targeting was very broad. Contemporary soft rock was played alongside other hits of the day in various genres; you could hear many different kinds of music in a top 40 set and the only thing that sort of got said about these songs, maybe, was that they were soft rock.
The label seems silly to those of us who were actually there, but apparently we don't have a right to act as historians and educate younger generations on music history. That's too bad. I appreciated those who taught me about the music I was too young to know much about but we live in a world where being well-educated is a sign of weakness now.