To this day I'm not sure how I would go about teaching that.
it's a funny thing, this topic.
it's been covered, in depth. but folks never know where to look. it's hiding in plain sight, almost.
I guess i need to list my qualifiers: music educator since 2008, full time public school orchestra teacher, masters degree in music ed, blah blah...
you'll notice there is a robust population of good string teachers who get their students to play with musicality, not just good notes and rhythms. Ironically, the method they're following is essentially teaching teaching a classical string instrument, the way a rock guitarist would learn on their own.
yet, when students interested in playing pop/rock/etc on guitar, their lessons often look very different. There seems to be this disconnect between "self taught people do x y and z, with lessons we do A B and C."
Suzuki method.
Suzuki, in a nutshell, believed we aught to learn music how we learn to speak. lots of repetition, hearing it, feeling it. Suzuki method does not teach note reading. (it's a beginner-only method, not intended for more than setting a strong foundation.)
imagine teaching someone how to use a slang term. now imagine how you as a teenager, or any random teenager today, learned the common slang of their time. In this instance, the best way to "get it" is just to hear it, and
experience it over and over until the explanation is harder to grasp than the actual use of the word.
Suzuki's method is often misunderstood. he produced master musicians. this was not a "learn by rote" program - though there is quite a bit of that. this was a method for developing a deep appreciation and love for music. Developing intrinsic motivation. if the sound is beautiful, and the technique is flawless, the repertoire is quality... the student will be driven to get better naturally.
this quote from him comes to mind constantly when I'm teaching:
“Teaching music is not my main purpose. I want to make good citizens. If children hear fine music from the day of their birth and learn to play it, they develop sensitivity, discipline and endurance. They get a beautiful heart.”