Each band I've been in in last decade seems to have this problem - some people respond usually within 24 hrs. or less to texts, emails and phone messages. At the other extreme are those who seem to think it is not unusual if they don't contact you back for 4-5 days. I'm in the first group so I am :scowl: Your thoughts are requested for clarity and possibly some comfort. My extreme story - drummer(25 yrs ago) inherited about $40k. He bought a new drum kit and a small pickup truck. He then disappeared for 3 weeks. Apparently him and one or two of our FOB people were holed up in a hotel, only leaving for cocaine,booze, weed, carryout and strippers.