re: CL: i've made sales at my home (in or just outside the garage, depending on weather) or in public spaces, e.g., the gas station parking lot --- where i'm familiar to the employees. i'm not typically selling a bass (it's pro audio and recording equipment). in each case i've vetted the buyer: if they really don't know anything about what i'm selling = i don't treat them as a viable buyer and we never go to a private email communication or phone numbers --- i sign off with a "thank you for your interest." sorta like "no soup for you!" but polite.I never thought about having people come to my place. It makes sense but it also sounds super risky.
anyway, i haven't had issues, ever. it's also possible that the buyers i've dealt with were more 'skeptical' of me than i was of them.