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Break up with her?
- Thread starter SnowCal
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Have a chat to your landlord, and arrange to have a couple of angry steroid heads throw her and the kid out on the street with no notice at all, preferably when it's really cold, and they're starving (Yes, I am joking, and here's my 
to prove it).
Honestly, I don't know what the problem is. If you want to end the relationship, just do it. She's a single mother, so she's certainly a lot more concerned about her kid than her relationship with you (and rightly so). You're the one making a big deal about nothing. Have you actually talked with her? Honestly, you sound like a teenager with all this commitment-phobia nonsense. Just talk with the girl if you think it's going too fast. I'll bet 5-1 that she'll be cool about it. You helped her out when she really needed it, and whatever happens, she'll be grateful to you, no matter what happens with the relationship. She's a single mother, and her priorities are different than yours.
to prove it).Honestly, I don't know what the problem is. If you want to end the relationship, just do it. She's a single mother, so she's certainly a lot more concerned about her kid than her relationship with you (and rightly so). You're the one making a big deal about nothing. Have you actually talked with her? Honestly, you sound like a teenager with all this commitment-phobia nonsense. Just talk with the girl if you think it's going too fast. I'll bet 5-1 that she'll be cool about it. You helped her out when she really needed it, and whatever happens, she'll be grateful to you, no matter what happens with the relationship. She's a single mother, and her priorities are different than yours.
That you feel bad about saving a single mother and her child from becomming homeless is a bit odd.
Youre not obligated to stay committed to her just because she lives next door.
Things might seem awkward now, but it will be REALLY awkward living next door to a woman you broke up with.
Especially when she asks you to babysit while she goes out with her new boyfriend.
slobake
resident ... something
You sound like a jerk that is good at pushing people away and will ultimately end up alone, have fun with that.
Are you guys on a mission to make me buy a Pizza today or what?
Seriously, im STARVING now..
Not buddies!
Im not! Im just pointing out that with his gf living next door the OP has a standing invitation to her kids left over pizza.
Thats what they feed single mothers and their kids these days, right?
Thats what they feed single mothers and their kids these days, right?
No man, the government takes all the money that we work so hard for, and gives it to single moms so they can buy mt dew and skittles for their kids.
Man, I remember the days when the government fed single moms pizza and Pepso. Not Pepsi, knock off soda, Pepso. Do they still get free gubmint cheese product?
I'm trying to see the problem here.
Are you getting any?
Is she cramping your style on getting something else?
Does she keep her fridge full?
Are you getting any?
Is she cramping your style on getting something else?
Does she keep her fridge full?
