For me, playing at a bar where there's just a handful of people or the people that are there are completely disinterested in the music is a real letdown for me. In fact, rather not even play those gigs at all. My bandmates want to play it anyways because they say they gig for the love of music, but for me , I need that feedback and energy from an audience to really get into it. Just wondering, how others felt.
Well, compared to a couple hundred screaming, dancing people.... I'd have to say no, I don't enjoy it as much. There are a few ways you can think about it that can help.. hopefully.
1) a paid rehearsal in a realistic setting
2) getting you used to playing to a small disinterested crowd and learn to still PERFORM
We had a spring gig out on this bar in the middle of a giant lake.. Mothers day... 50 degrees.. cloudy... windy.. We had 2 boats of people show up. They expected about 200. Bad weather. We played our gig.. the bar owner was in his concrete basement office ( seriously, under the water level ) watching the video feed of the stage. Watching us he had NO idea we were playing to 4 people instead of 240 people and told us he as impressed.. not only did we sound good, we LOOKED like we were performing to a crowd and having fun.... which we were. We'll be playing there again because of that.
We've also had our singer lose her voice after the first set. It was gone, not even talking.... Rather than freaking out, getting grumpy snapping at each other. We played all the songs we could think of that us guys sang ( we sing about 20% of the songs.. brought up friends from the crowd to karaoke sing with us... we even took a swing at songs we've never played together as a band...
Of course it would have been better with the singer, but the crowd loved it.. the understood what happened. We closed out the place and got a bonus from the bar owner since we kept everyone drinking til closing time. Rather than quitting or actiing negative/frustrated. It ended up being a great night.
Lemons try and make some lemonade.