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Do you hate?

"All forms of violence, especially war, are totally unacceptable as means to settle disputes between and among nations, groups and persons.

Nonviolence does not mean that we remain indifferent to a problem. On the contrary, it is important to be fully engaged. However, we must behave in a way that does not benefit us alone. We must not harm the interests of others. Nonviolence therefore is not merely the absence of violence. It involves a sense of compassion and caring. It is almost a manifestation of compassion.

Anyone who practices the Dharma has a duty to do battle with the enemy--negative emotions.

It is worth reminding ourselves that what brings us the greatest joy and satisfaction in life are those actions we undertake out of concern for others. Indeed we can go further. For whereas the fundamental questions of human existence, such as why we are here, where we are going, and whether the universe had a beginning, have each elicited different responses in different philosophical traditions, it is self-evident that a generous heart and wholesome actions lead to greater peace.

Internal peace is an essential first step to achieving peace in the world. How do you cultivate it? It's very simple. In the first place by realizing clearly that all mankind is one, that human beings in every country are members of one and the same family.

The antidote to hatred in the heart, the source of violence, is tolerance. Tolerance is an important virtue of bodhisattvas--it enables you to refrain from reacting angrily to the harm inflicted on you by others. You could call this practice "inner disarmament," in that a well-developed tolerance makes you free from the compulsion to counterattack. For the same reason, we also call tolerance the "best armor," since it protects you from being conquered by hatred itself.

If we looked down at the world from space, we would not see any demarcations of national boundaries. We would simply see one small planet, just one." - His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama Tenzin Gyatso

I don't live up to this, but I am consciously & actively trying to do so.
 
I don't hate, but some have said that there are people they would want to kill, given the opportunity. Me too. I don't hate them. Nothing personal, but I think it would be for the good of the general public.

Hmmm.... interesting. People who you hate specifically, vs people who just plain deserve to go.

That's a good one.





What if someone stole your custom Pedulla? What if someone destroyed your custom Pedulla?
 
Yes I do hate.


I hate female mosquitoes so bad I kill as many of them as possible. I truly hate them with all my heart. Same for other insects that only want to hurt me.

I hate to not being taken seriously. I hate when people are too quick judging other people. I hate to forget something for too long in the oven. I hate to fail. I hate the fact I'm not as good a bassist as I'd like to be. I hate to have to clean my apartment. I hate the fact the summer is so short here. I hate our high gasoline prices. I hate the fact there's wars on the planet and innocent people get gilled. And in a wider perspective, I hate the fact the world is not perfect. I hate racism. I hate to clean up after other people. I hate the fact I get fatter if I'm not careful enough about what I eat. I hate to be careful about what I eat. I hate the fact there's drunk people and other maniacs out driving on the roads. I hate they don't make Fender rhodes electric pianos anymore. I hate the high prices on good instruments. I hate unreliable things. I hate the fact a good whisky or cognac is so expensive. I hate to have a hungover. I hate nowaday's music industry. I hate to run out of money. I h..........................

Guess that's enough to prove the first sentence... :D
 
He'll kick your butt.

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Yes I hate my father for beating my 4 and 11 year old little sisters.

And now that you are grown up, you need to get them some help. Right now.
... child abusers are about as close as i could come to actual HATE ...
:mad:
i hope that you and your sisters are out of that situation .
if not , do something about it ...
almost anything would be a better alternative than the abuse
your pig of a father has dished out to you and your sisters ...

God Bless you and yours ...