It seems like anymore, most people want/expect to hear drums first, vocals second and guitar third. Everything else is considered nice but not necessary. This is for rock/pop/country -- it may be different for jazz and maybe blues. In "contemporary worship" situations it's probably more like vocals first, guitar/keyboard second and drums third with everything else optional.
If the kick drum is loud as a cannon a lot of people assume they are also hearing bass guitar even if there is no real tonality due to the bass being buried in the mix (as too often happens).
When I do have people comment on the mix it's usually more general (i.e. a particular instrument is too loud or too soft), vs. getting as specific as analyzing tone. Most of the comments on my tone come from other musicians (either that I'm playing with or are in the audience) and that's fine with me.
If the kick drum is loud as a cannon a lot of people assume they are also hearing bass guitar even if there is no real tonality due to the bass being buried in the mix (as too often happens).
When I do have people comment on the mix it's usually more general (i.e. a particular instrument is too loud or too soft), vs. getting as specific as analyzing tone. Most of the comments on my tone come from other musicians (either that I'm playing with or are in the audience) and that's fine with me.