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Eulogy for the world's best dog

LBS-bass

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Nov 22, 2017
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It's taken me three days to write this; I still have tears in my eyes. If anyone has noticed I'm a little grumpy lately, this is probably a contributing factor, and I apologize. I lost the world's best dog this week and it's awful.

This is a post I placed on a photo album with pictures of him elsewhere earlier today but I wanted to share it here too because I know many of my friends here have beloved critters in their lives.

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Our beloved Ratatouille, Toui for short. Found in 2008 as a stray, most likely a year old, hairless and naked, eating garbage out of someone's trash cans in the middle of a cold December in Cleveland, Ohio, he was taken in by someone who had the good sense to recognize his breed and contact Crest-Care, a Chinese Crested rescue group. Our good fortune began then, as he was soon handed over to the foster home of Suzanne Yancey, who was a friend of mine through an online forum for Chinese Crested owners. Sue posted pictures and videos of this crazy little creature, and I was smitten and in love and I knew I had to have him. Sue flew to Sacramento from Lansing, Michigan to bring him to us, and our love affair began.

Toui earned his livelihood on the streets the hard way and he was a scrappy little dude with a prey drive that was undoubtedly the only thing that kept him alive during his street days. He was an athletic and agile hunter who would climb trees to pursue his prey, getting himself into a few sticky predicaments as a result, as you can see in the photos. We still have no idea how he got into the one that's in our pictures here. It wouldn't have been easy. I took the pictures as my husband, Rick, fetched the ladder to get him down.

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He kept our yard vermin-free for many years, sometimes it wasn't so pretty as critters (not excluding skunks) failed to elude him, but hunting was his instinct. Despite his lust for blood, he was a clown and a character in every possible sense.

Things he loved included: Treats, blankets (always begging to be fully covered, including his head- he remembered those cold Cleveland nights), coffee, alcohol (no, we didn't generally give him those, but you had better not leave them unattended), eating my earplugs (which passed through undigested), eating paper, playing with and eating toilet paper off the roll which was fun during the great TP shortage of 2020, drums, loud music, band rehearsals, swimming in the pool to get treats, basking in the sunshine, getting his fleece on in the wintertime.

He loved playing with his ring toy, flinging around his Ikea rats, and humping his big dog toy. He loved chasing his own tail, dancing while getting his butt rubbed, and snuggling on the couch with his humans. Understandably, given his background, he was obsessive about food and would eat his and everyone else's food if given the opportunity. He crab-walked when he pooped. He would effortlessly leap from the ground to the porch, avoiding all three stairs, to come in from the back yard when called.

There wasn't much he didn't like, though he wasn't too fond of our dog Leo, and he liked to make sure Leo knew where he stood in the pack order, though he was never mean about it. Mostly he was a relentlessly happy little guy who begged for treats and wagged his tail right up until the end.

We got twelve good years with him, but cancer took him from us quickly. He developed a cough and was being treated for chronic bronchitis but soon developed a lump on his shoulder and bruising on his chest which led us to an unexpected discovery of advanced hemangiosarcoma which had metastasized extensively. Everyone was shocked, as he was still full of energy and not behaving like a sick dog. The vet was in disbelief.

We chose not to pursue surgery or chemotherapy, as he was advanced in years and we felt the cancer was too widespread for us to buy him enough additional time to be worth putting him through treatment. He felt good and we reasoned that he would be okay until he wasn't. That form of cancer is not painful, and though he seemed like he felt well, we knew his time was short. We began preparing for the inevitable. It was the best way. He got whatever he wanted after that, though he pretty much always did anyway. But I did sneak him some sips of wine. He always loved wine.

Three weeks later, on June 12, 2020, while attempting to run with the pack as they barked at the mail carrier, he suffered a ruptured splenic tumor and we took him to the veterinary ER to say our final goodbyes.

I know I described some of what he loved, but there's no way to describe just how he touched our lives and made everything better. Everything we do since he is gone is different. I had to watch where I left my coffee cups, my wine glass, my earplugs, I still find myself policing these things, now for no good reason. We had beds for him in the rehearsal room that are now empty. He was a huge presence, hugely loved, and hugely missed.

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Run free, Bubba. Momma loves you always.
 
These creatures bond with us in ways we don’t always appreciate at the time. We adjust to them and they to us until we know each other’s routines. They’re ready to go with us anywhere at any time on a moments notice and not complain. And they don’t judge us for our bad habits.
 
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Dangit. I am so sorry.

I especially get what you said about not having to police earplugs etc anymore. I have so much freedom these days - I can cut my apple without leaving two small bites, the paper recycling doesn't need a cover, I could even leave the toilet lid up - but I'd trade these conveniences for having Cody back for one more day.
 
Man, I’m so sorry. I turned to TB earlier this year when I lost my little girl, Dixie. As expected, all the comments and support made me feel a lot better.

That being said, It’s been five months since we lost Dixie and I still can’t really talk about it.

My wife and I have always had dogs. Unfortunately, part of the blessing of having these loving companions in our lives is that we have to say goodbye to them. It is so difficult, and for us, losing Dixie was especially hard. I don’t want to go into the circumstances but will just say it was unexpected and we weren’t able to be there for her when she passed.

I don’t know that I will ever get over that.

the best I can do is remember how lucky we were to have this little girl in our lives for 13 years.

we still have dogs and the one bit of advice I can maybe pass along is that, when Dixie passed, it made us really appreciate the time we have with our other pups.

they are truly a gift.
 
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Thank you all for your kind condolences. One thing I forgot to mention which I just put in the GOF thread is that, with all his hardscrabble beginnings, he was also the most sensitive dog who would cry actual tears if he thought you were angry with him. It became clear to us early on that he had been abused during housebreaking by whoever ultimately put him out into the streets, because he was so afraid of going pee that he would hold it in until he fell asleep, and then he would just pee where he lay.

Well, we started putting a diaper on him to prevent those kinds of accidents, but even gentle attempts at correction were traumatizing to him. With the diaper and our patience and encouragement, mainly with a lot of praise when he would lift his leg outside, he was soon able to lose his fear of going pee but I never had the heart to fully house break him because of those tears. Instead we gave him an area in the house with pee pads if he wanted that, and left his diaper on him for good measure, until we eventually installed a doggy door and then he was able to go outdoors whenever he wanted. He was something else.
 

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