Well, I much rather watch your singer perform than my bands singer.
BTW, those are kick butt stage monitors you have there.
Wish I could lay claim to the monitors. They belonged to the venue.
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Well, I much rather watch your singer perform than my bands singer.
BTW, those are kick butt stage monitors you have there.
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If you're playing music for fun, then by all means refuse to play the song and deal with the consequences. But if it's a job, you need to buck up and remember that pretty much every job makes you do things you hate. Your job as a cover band musician is to entertain people and play songs that they want to hear. If you don't want to do that, your band leader will find someone who does.
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A country arrangement, I hope, with bottleneck guitar and fiddle solos?Twice this week a guy tossed us a $20 to play Metallica (we're a country band). Of course the only song the rest of the band knew was Enter Sandman.

I'd drink and woohollah to that.
We have a private party gig coming up later in the month. The hiring party has specifically asked that we play "Call Me Maybe". There are not words to define how much I hate that song. But since the hiring party specifically asked for it, we'll play it.
Our BL mentioned this request and suggested we learn it (ok) and maybe play it at our next gig (hell to the naw). My other band members felt the same way. So we left the rehearsal AGREEING that we would do this song at the private party and then bury it.
So, as we're setting up for last night's gig, BL says..."word has gotten out that we're working on "Call Me Maybe" so don't be surprised if we get a request for it". I said " They can request but I'm not doing it"
So, sure enough, one table starts asking for it. BL says "think we oughta give it a shot?" I say "hell no". I don't usually curse, so when I do, be sure that I mean it. So he starts polling the other band members so I cut in..."Maybe you misunderstood me....hell f^%}ing no. I'm not playing it."
So then we announce and then play our last song. We had skipped several songs because the venue wanted to close a little early. The small crowd that's left shouts for one more. In between the shouts for one more are the three words I'm coming to dread. "Call Me Maybe". I gave the BL a "don't even think about it" look and suggested doing a song we had skipped. We did it and it went well and we finished and packed up.
My disdain for this song could very well be irrational, but it's real and growing. We will do it at this party and I will try like mad to get it stricken from our set lists.
Anybody else have a similar situation?
It's that empty of groove I missed any rap influence. I'm sure it offends all musicians equally regardless of race.Please as a black man appealing on behalf of all rappers and black folks in general .Do not do this song. I beg you.....