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Fear of flying!

I was on a flight that had a near miss incident out of Charlotte a bunch of years ago that spooked me big time. Took me awhile to feel comfortable

I met someone on a flight a dozen or so years ago who had been involved in a near-catastrophic forced landing on a commercial airline flight a year or so earlier, and she said the experience actually allowed her to relax more on subsequent flights: Her thought was, what are the odds of being involved in an airline disaster twice in your life?

I didn't have the heart to tell her stochastic processes don't work that way... :) but it was encouraging to meet someone who'd taken a positive attitude from what could have been a permanently traumatizing experience.
 
I had a flight out of Miami over the gulf that was like a roller coaster ride. When we were boarding a very serious looking older couple escorted a young girl probably about 12-years old on to the plane. They sat down right behind us. As soon as we took off the girl started saying things like "Don't make me go, they are going to put me in jail." The two adults were trying to soothe her in quiet voices. She got louder and louder and eventually worked herself up into a state of hysteria screaming about being locked up. A flight attendant came by a couple of times and she calmed down after about an hour about the same time the flight smoothed out. I'm guessing they sedated her.
The whole thing took my mind off of the the flight. I felt really bad for her and all I could do was pray for her. I still think about her. I wonder what happened and I hope she is okay.
 
It's the lead up to it that kills me I think. Checking in, getting strip searched, waiting to board, helping the fat lady get her crap in the overhead, listening to the "if we crash" shpiel... If I could get out of my car, walk on to a plane and take off I'd probably be fine.

Was sure today was the day. ...But no. Just felt completely ill. Didn't even make it to the airport, just turned off and went to the office instead. I used to love flying, but things change...

Back to bass!
 
I used to have to fly for my work and was fine except for the last 8 months I worked this job. I developed a fear of flying so great that I had to take Xanax. After 8 months I got a different job and that ended the problem.

Got that - it doesn't work. Had 3 before a flight a couple times ago and decided to get off before they closed the doors. Yes, it's partly a control issue, but it's also a fear of disrupting other people's day. Incognito is fine for me so if I'm going to crack, I don't think it's fair for other people to be subject to it.
 
Anybody who has a fear of flying would hate to sit next to me.

I'm the guy who tells jokes about planes crashing and falling from the sky, especially at take off.

I was in a storm one time and the plane just dropped ...I can't remember how much exactly, but it was a sudden jerk, because the plane dropped..it didn't like, decline...just WHAM! dropped.

I loved it....everybody elese had this look....And the lightning we saw was just too cool. Again..the people around me..were not as excited.

I figure..if I'm going to go....a plane crash would be an awesome way. If I had cell service , I'd tell some people to kiss my ........
 
As for flying in general, statistically, you are more likely to get hit by lightning while you accept your $200,000,000 lottery check than to die in a plane crash. Paul Lynde told me this. Relax and enjoy your flight.

You are correct. The NTSB keeps track of all transporation fatalities in the USA for any given year. The last published year is 2011. The US airline industry had ZERO fatalites, a perfect record!
You can't get better than that folks. Meanwhile, we killed 32,367 souls on our highways that very same year. As I said in my earlier post, "The most dangerious part of flying is the drive to and from the airport."

Here is a link to the NTSB report for 2011. http://www.ntsb.gov/data/
 
Well I am a teenager so don't read this if you feel weird on getting advice from a kid but I've never been afraid of flying. My prents are both flight attendants and my uncles pilots. Basically my family is connected to planes so flying is natural and so are heights. For one put one thing in your head:

You are more likely to die while reding this then on a plane.

In fact you are very likely to die at any moment so carpe diem and stuff but!

People are scared of airplanes and that is why we are safe. Isn't that why you have locks on your doors? Because you don't want to get robbed.

Airplanes are checked for problems before take off by the ground crew and the pilots. Proceedures are rigorous and leave no variable out. And in the grand scheme of things an accident makes a plane safer. Companies with major accidents normally go down. The humans who made mistakes are normally fired (and more of them end up killing themselves. And I am not even kidding.)

When there is an accident all companies take new measures to fix any holes they may have, and double those already perfect procedures.

There are also few variables while flying, much fewer then a car ride for examples. Did you know the pilot and co pilot can't eat the same food? Are forced to sleep before the flight? Or that the crew can also fly the plane? Or is extremely trained to save you in the out of this world unlikely event the plane crashes. Or that many times there are extra pilots flying as something called extra crew in first class. Planes are safest as safe can be and one of the best places to watch movies!

Just some more facts: my mom has worked for 25 years, about 4000 flights. Never had a plane crash, accident, anything. My dad has worked for the same ammount of years and done more flights (he never got pregnant) and he never had an accident either. So in conclusion:

As long as you don't fly Easyjet you are safe.

(Easyjet is crap!)

Now scared of airports. Thats logical. Airports suck!
 
You are correct. The NTSB keeps track of all transporation fatalities in the USA for any given year. The last published year is 2011. The US airline industry had ZERO fatalites, a perfect record!
You can't get better than that folks. Meanwhile, we killed 34,434 on our highways that very same year. As I said in my earlier post, "The most dangerious part of flying is the drive to and from the airport."

Here is a link to the NTSB report forhttp://www.ntsb.gov/data/ 2011.

They don't count the people who choke to death on those infernal airline pretzels.
 
"Need?" Ya. It helps. I've flown everywhere. Nigeria. Toga. Beinine republic. Ghana. Egypt. Moraco. Spain. France. Italy. Germany. Check republic. Slovak republic. Austria. Thailand. Laos. Philppines. Indoneisia. Australia. New zealand. Kenya. Tanzania. England. Brazil. Chile. Costa rica. Belize. Carribean islands. Mexico. Canada. The one in south america... au... something... argentina... that's it! Japan. Maldives. EVERYWHERE. Dude. You're fine. Just pop a valium. You'll be okay.
 
I, too, have flown to just about everywhere at one time or other, starting at the age of 6 months, on a C-47 (Douglas DC-3 to you civilians) in 1951. After flying all over as a GI brat, I did it for 24 years as a Combat Engineer - and sometimes to places where we weren't liked, and not really supposed to be. My last flight was returning from Desert Storm in 1990. Between the first one, and the last one, I've had engines catch fire, or puke their guts out (kind of scary, over the north Atlantic in December); had nosewheel bearings collapse on takeoff; had cargo pallets come loose on takeoff climbout in a C-130 (they don't fly well pointed straight up - I know). And don't even get me started about helicopters; they're unpleasant even when they aren't on fire and/or people are shooting at you. To top it off, part of my job (as a surveyor) was Crash Investigation, locating and plotting the bits and pieces ("WSO's lower left arm at grid location..."); doesn't make you real eager to get on a plane any time soon. I don't fly any more because I think I've used my good luck up, plane-wise, and also because of the mess they've made of the whole thing in the last 15 years.
 
I'm on about 40 flights per year for work, and am claustraphobic. Do yourself a favour and get an isle seat close to an emergency exit. It always eases me to be an isle or two behind an emergency door. Take books, magazines, tunes, movies...something to focus on. Never rely on inflight movies on the plane. I've had monitors not work leaving with me with nothing to do except think.

My wife is a very nervous flyer, especially when flying through turbulence. She learned to watch the flight crew to see how they react to the flight. On her last flight to Chigaco, the seatbelt light went on and the crew was ordered to strap in. She was getting pretty anxious until she noticed a member of the crew pull out a book and start to read while the plane was bouncing around. That put her at ease.
 
After nine long years I finally cracked it! Months and months of daily preparations not to mention the years of shame... Yes indeed, it was a great weekend.

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