To the OP if you want respect stop playing for free.
The biggest acts in the region play this show. I had to beg for two years to even get in.
If I want respect, I probably need to get out of this market.
I don't want respect.
I just want to play, and get the same deal all the other bands get. No more, no less. I don't feel we should be at the very top of this market; neither do I feel we should be at the bottom.
We are a good, well-rehearsed band that sings and plays in tune and in time. We have picked songs that "go over," and we have day jobs.
I will turn 50 in July. I am under no illusion that I will someday become a star.