OK, let's make sure the parameters are set here. Our last song is Freebird. It takes 10 minutes. We have one song before it. When I get to that song, I will look at my watch. If we were going to go 4 or 5 minutes over, I would cut the song, and go directly to Freebird.
Here is the setlist:
1. We Will Rock You - Queen
2. Tie Your Mother Down - Queen
3. Beast of Burden - Our version of Bette Midler's version of the Stones
4. I Hate Myself for Loving You - Joan Jett
5. Use Me - Bill Withers
6. Rockin' in the Free World - Neil Young
7. Ten Inch Record - Aerosmith
8. Sweet Emotion - Aerosmith
9. Train, Train - Blackfoot
10. Freebird - Lynyrd Skynyrd
I have already cut "Yer Blues," because my wife didn't want to cut any other song than that. I am the anal one in this band. I am the OCD timekeeping person in this band. I am also NOT in charge of this band. I wanted to cut "Sweet Emotion," because it's long. I have begged them to shorten the jam at the end of this one, because we could get back a solid minute. I have a spoken section in the middle of "Rockin' in the Free World," and if I skip it, they have no choice but to move on, and that might save a minute.
Believe me, I am trying my best to make this come in at exactly 45 minutes. I do NOT have the attitude that we can play over by five or more minutes; in fact, I guarantee this will NOT happen. This is not a "big" festival; it's a free show, and it happens with multiple bands every year.
I kind of wanted to get some input from the Talkbass Boy Scouts, just to get a feel for this question, but remember, I am in a BAND, and that means three other people have opinions, too. Two of my band members, (the two with the most experience playing out live,) have the opinion that if you're too nice, in this business, you don't go anywhere, because everyone walks on you. To their credit, the three or four most successful bands in this town are universally loathed by all the other bands, for their superior attitudes and behavior.
Also to their credit, I made a big deal about us being nice, and working well with sound crews, and showing respect, and I witnessed how I personally got more abuse heaped on me than anyone else in the band. That's because of the cold fact that a lot of people in the business are jerks, and when you are nice, and respectful to them, they see it as a chance to take advantage of you.
So these two band members are a lot less "nice" than me, and they seem to also be more well-liked than me. Funny how that works.
I don't know what I'm going to do yet, and whether we are going to cut a song, or trim some fat and try to make it, or just go over by a couple minutes, but again, I GUARANTEE I will not be party to going over by five.
With ALL THAT in mind, what do you say?
Edited to add: I have been FORBIDDEN to ask the stage manager.