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Gig: Black Tie Gala - What Do You Wear?

dtripoli

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It's been awhile since we did a Black Tie event.
It's a huge event with cocktails, schmoozing, dinner, speakers and dancing.
I smart enough to know cargo shorts are a no-no even if they are black.
My experience tells me in lieu of tuxes or suits, it'd be ok to perform with black dress shirts, black slacks and black shoes and we should be fine.
Female singer will off set us with an elegant dress.
Do you concur?

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Dress like a 1930s mobster, complete with fedora, appropriately colored mob insignia and a cigar. Add sunglasses for a blues brothers feel.

But seriously OP, I think you're on the right track. Black dress shirt and slacks is what I would wear, but Stumbo makes a good point: if in doubt, ask the host(s).
 
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It's been awhile since we did a Black Tie event.
It's a huge event with cocktails, schmoozing, dinner, speakers and dancing.
I smart enough to know cargo shorts are a no-no even if they are black.
My experience tells me in lieu of tuxes or suits, it'd be ok to perform with black dress shirts, black slacks and black shoes and we should be fine.
Female singer will off set us with an elegant dress.
Do you concur?

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Dark trousers, leather shoes and pretty much any collared, button-up shirt, as long as it's not to lairy. You're in the band, not a guest. You'll be on a stage, in a performance set, with coloured lights; it sort of makes you a giant TV set. As long as you look like you're on Jools, they'll be happy with the show.
Note: Organisers need to hear this point; otherwise they'll continue with the default position in that you have to as-near-as-damn-it match the guests.
 
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Stick with all-Black or Black/White.

Really formal setting....
I've worn Tux/bow tie, but a black suit/black skinny tie/white shirt is fine. Lose the jacket once guys in the crowd start to too.

More Casual setting.....
Lose the coat, loosen your tie, roll up your sleeves (see my avatar) once the dance floor is jumpin'.
Vests have come back in fashion, look very sharp with a slim cut shirt (please, no baggy sleeves!).
Black shirt, black skinny tie always works. Add a Black vest or black jacket for more flair.
I always dress better than the wait-staff.

Masquerade Ball....
No mask required (so far).
 
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Talk with the host - see if they have any requirements. If not, I would go:

1. Black buttondown and nice black pants (get them both pressed).
2. Similar dark suits with simple dark tie.

In an event like this, presentation is very important, and can make a difference whether you fit in, or stick out like a sore thumb.
 
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1st choice---- tux---- I need one for some of the work I get that pays good $$$
2nd choice---- black suit----- most big boys eventually have to pay their last respects to a loved one
3rd or 4th choice are interchangeable----- all black (ie "pit black") or suits
 
Suit jackets get all rumpled from guitar straps, so I think that might be a pass to not have a jacket in some situations. Then who's to say what is slacks and what is suit pants. Half the time I was watching Eric Clapton on stage, I was wondering if he dry cleans his Armani suit every night and can get those creases out, or if he just gets a new one each time and doesn't care.
A halfway decent suit costs about what a midrange american bass costs.
If you have horns and keys make them wear a jacket, lol.