I'm honestly kinda on the fence. I wrote the first post in this thread on my phone so let me fill you guys in a little better.
I have some money to throw around because I did my taxes early. Not a lot, but at the least, things aren't as tight as they've been. So I've decided to make more serious investments in my budding career as a bassist and get what I "need," within reason. I guess in a way, it's with the intention of spending money to make money. I realize that it can be practical to have a full rig in some situations (read: small clubs in NYC where the house gear is @#$ or the PA sucks or whatever). This is why I initially bought the bass head because I figured it would at least get me kinda halfway and give me some more options for gigs and sessions. It's a Peavey SessionBass rackmount head. It fits exactly in either my Oakley surf backpack or my rolling suitcase. It's just light enough to tuck under my arm, and it was $100 on Craigslist! I'm pretty happy with it and would like to complete the outfit with a cabinet.
But yeah, like you guys said, I don't necessarily want to fall prey to peer pressure either. The drummer just thinks that it'll be too problematic to run through the PA because of not being able to hear myself and because he won't be able to hear me that well either. Like *I* said, I've done it and largely for ergonomic reasons, I prefer it.
Which brings me to my other point. I quit gigging as a keyboardist because I got really sick of lugging around two stands and two keyboards. I have a rolling cart that folds up and I worked in the film industry and have worked at studios and live sound gigs... so I'm no stranger to figuring out how to move lots of gear.
I just...would prefer not to because I'm very small AND to add to that, I already have a bad shoulder. For those who might insist that no, I'm supposed to blow out my rotator cuff moving around bass gear that literally weighs as much as I do...? Uh, yeah. Why don't you talk to me in 20 years when I can't play at ALL due to having to have reconstructive surgery on my shoulder! :sob:
I'm going to check out the idea of getting a lighter cabinet, but "lighter" still translates to having to carry my bass, my bass head, and at least 30-40 pounds of cabinet. Which for me is a lot and more than I "should" be carrying at 5'5" and 95 pounds. I want to play with these guys and I want to be all agreeable and easy-going and cool to work with. I don't want to whine about my shoulder. But on the other hand, one of the things that made me absolutely furious when it came to working in film, was the fact that people just seemed to inherently expect me to lug around 80 pounds of camera gear because that was my job. I have good upper body strength but my shoulder is finally getting better after injuring it EIGHT YEARS AGO and I would like to keep it that way.
Wow, I guess this bothers me more than I thought. Um. Carry on...