That was NOT a 'booking agent'! Just some scheduling hack. A real booking agent does their job because they get a commission!
This. Lots of clubs just use anybody who feels like taking on the job to book gigs. Usually they have little or no experience in these matters.
That being said, here's my advice for you. Never EVER wait that late to confirm details. That is where YOU dropped the ball. ANY time someone says "I'll get back to you" you can translate that as UNFINISHED BUSINESS. At that point you do NOT HAVE A GIG. If you couldn't get up with her way back when, that should have been a sign that something was wrong. Next time, do not assume you have a gig until you are CONFIRMED.
(I just use caps for emphasis. I'm not cyber yelling at you. Most of us had to learn these lessons the hard way.)
Better luck next time.
By the way, you need to tell you buddies to get some game if a hotel room is the only way they will get laid.
