I'm sort of tired of church worship bands. I don't even get to play bass anymore which is stupid. Nearly all of the other members are just doing it because they have to. What's a good way to jam with people to some secular music like Rush, Yes, heck, even some Blink? Anything to get those fingers moving and creativity juices flowing. My skills aren't getting any better from being in a worship band. Some people told me Craigslist but my brother advised against it because they generally tend to be like 40+ year olds with nothing to do after working their 8-4 jobs and stuff...and I'm 21...so... And the friends I do know who do play instruments are either in a band already (well-established) or don't want to jam at all. Lame. It's almost making me want to give up bass completely. Why play the instrument if you can't apply the knowledge in a band setting, where the bass guitar is most suited in?