I always assumed gold plated connector were better in term of resistance to corrosion/oxydation over time, i.e. you lose less performance over a 20 years period.
Anyway, what do you mean by fair in pricing ?
My earbuds (q-jays) are fairly priced imho, while still expensive in my book,
What's your maximum budget ? can you wait and save a little ?
I started with a 100$ budget, ended buying something over 200.
Not saying price is everything but great headphones usually do cost more, good design seems to cost.
In the end, ime, lifespan is everything, check for something with an easily replaceable cord if you plan to carry the headphones around alot.