Hit on by drummer

[MikeBass]

Long story short, we're still looking for a new drummer, and we've got a female one lined up for audition, which would prevent this problem in the future.

Well, you hope it prevents that problem!
What if that drummer tried the same thing!!!!!

I was in a band with a VERY hot lead singer.
She was the kind of woman tat would have guys at the club hit on her when their GF's were there.

Her and I drove to a gig once. Picked her up at her house and went to the gig. Not uncommon, she would always ride with one of the guys- didn't like driving home by herself after the gig.
Afterwards, went to drop her off. She asked me in.
I thought nothing of it because we were all friends and this wasn't the first time I dropped her off and came in (nothing ever happened before).
I was tired sat on her couch, she said she would be right back and walked out in a very sexy little thing.
Well, she had a BF. I was single.
I knew her BF through her. Never hung out with the guy except when all of us would hang out. Nice guy. Real cool.

Well..........yeah, it happened. And more than once too.
Until the next time we all hung out.
I felt like crap. Told her it was done.
SHE had no problem with continuing. The "as long as he doesn't know" stuff.
I told the rest of the guys in the band. She got pissed.

I felt bad, but I was single and not seeing anyone. But still, what she did behind his back.
Heck, what I did.
I left the band about 6 months later (for other reasons) but she always asked if I wanted to come by.

If he did it once, he would have did it again.
And trust me, he lied when he said he did like you, just thought you were hot.
You may be hot, but he still thought enough of you to trust you had you went along with it.
You don't have affairs with people you don't like.