As a front of house engineer I use a side chained compressor on the bass all of the time when it comes to modern pop, rock, country, etc. This lets me get both the Kick and the bass pretty hot in the mix, without making either one take over the whole thing. Every time the kick hits, the bass dips down just a little. Not enough that you would otherwise notice, but enough that it allows them to both be nice and strong, yet have their own space. I also tend to Hi-Pass the bass quite a bit, depending on how the system is tuned, to allow the kick to sit underneath it. The bass will still be nice and full but not overly rumbly.
I would not bother with any of these techniques on stage as part of the bass rig. Too little payoff and I agree that the players should be doing what they can to lock in on their own. My Front of House techniques are just extra spice depending on what the PA is doing.