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How early is TOO early

Id say 4-5 yrs old for those easy to play flute like things that use to be common for 1st grade. 9-10 yrs old for organ or synth, and perhaps guitar if theyre interested. Thru this age range it should be at least half as a form of play. Rather then serious thing. Sure encourage them to learn to play simple songs they like and to just experiment with making sounds and sound combinations pleasing to them. But I dont think formal classes like for piano are good thing untill theyre older and not unless they really really want to play piano rather then other keyboard insgtruments or some other instrument instead.

For bass guitar I think they should be old enough so as to be big enough to be able to handle short scale basses ok. The average sized 12-13 yr old can imo. For younger players guitar is better sized imo. And one can allways benefit from rythum guitar ability for bass imo. (If little kid, preteen) was showing a strong interest in bass guitar Id be more inclined to let them kinda fool around with mine. But mainly have them focus on bass synth. But Im twisted peep. So letting them cut loose on a synth that can womp any 5 or 6 stringer bass for low end sounds like fun. Lol.

If a young kid spends 2-3 times a week of there own time working on their keyboard, woodwind, or guitar ability. theyre doing good imo.

For preteens I think itd be more important and beneficial for them to focus bit more on dance and other things related to entertainment and involvement with music. To include exporing different types that appeal to them. This way they develope overall music interaction understanding. And avoid technophibe approach, rather then doing music with soul and spirit.

Woodwinds, and those plastic recorders. Have been the first music instrument for little kids since forever in allmost all cultures. I think theres reason and benefit to this. With other instruments like keyboards, guitar or stringed instruments being when theyre a bit older. In part this is due to recorders and flutes being wind blown with easy fingering. I think this also gives better note recognition and familiarity for young preteens. Rather then the lesser connection with keyboards and stringed instruments.

I young kid driven into music and being made to treat it as serious stuff is a sad thing. One who has real personal interest in it and who puts in their own time toward that is gonna excell more then the one with lotsa classes for music.

Its also important for them to have other kid musicians to be aware of. Sungha Jung would be one of my pics for young guitar players to introduce young kids to the idea of playing instrument thru. Rather then focussing on wanting them to be inspired by adult musicians or dad., etc.
 
I'd say focus more on ear training. Provide cheap instruments for himto toy with. Teach him the tones of notes. Learning note recoginition at an early age is far easier then when he's older. Just like teaching numbers, the alphabet and a language. That way the boy gets the hard part of learning music out of the way when it's easiest for them to learn. Then when he grows up, allow him to pick the instrument or instruments he developes personal interest in. How many instuments on CL do you see up for sale by parents who tried to get their child into music (guitars, pianos, violins, etc)? Let him pick and he'll be more inclined to stay with it (in music) even though he may bounce between different instruments as he grows up.

I started on viola in middle school and quickle switched to double bass, then guitar and then back to electric bass and drums half way through high school. My wife's parents put her in piano lessons in elementry school and then she decided to take up violin in middle and highschool. Now she doesn't play anything :( Her parents made no effort to enroll her brother in any music training, and he picked up the trombone on his own in highschool and then switched to drums. 4 years later, he is still drumming on his own desire. I begged to play, and 17 years later I still love playing.
 
My friends kid has been playing drums since he was about 6 months.. It all started with rockband he took the sticks away his dad and just started hitting the drums. Then later that week we took him out to the garage and sat him infront of the real drums and the smile on his face when he hit a real drum made us relize that this baby will be a drummer. hes still playing and absolutely loves it... Imagine how good hes going to be when hes older. And we never pushed drums on him or anything. the first thing he asks for when dad gets home is to go play drums he loves it.
 
My son grew up seeing me practice. When he was a little thing in diapers he would hang on my back, arms around my neck and toes in my belt, while I practiced my electric upright. Sometimes his mother would bring him to see me play.
But he didn't take an interest in music. He early fell in love with the martial arts - fought in his first tournament at seven. He kept training and fighting until he left for college.
I'm a bass player, but the kid is a different person than I am. So, keep an open mind.
 
Get him on piano with a good children s instructor at the eirliest age

I disagree about the piano... WAY TOO BIG. Maybe at age 10, depending on the size of the kid.

My NOW 10 year-old son started with a very small drumset and Roland SPD-11 Percussion/Drum Pad before he could talk (intelligibly). I then got him a Concertina Ukulele at age 2.

He started violin at age four - 16th scale. He still plays violin and studies privately at the Colburn School and plays a 1/2 size violin.

At age 7, I got him a Link Removed. It's a 25" scale instrument.

He now plays 30" scale basses - an SX fretted Jazz-like and an SX fretless Jazz-like. He's been playing this size for about a year.

He also plays an 1/8 scale double bass - about 30" bridge to nut.

I am a BIG believer in making sure the instrument is NOT too big. Don't fall for that "they'll grow into" pitch. If it's too big it'll be too uncomfortable - and it will not be pursued. It takes considerable hand strength, especially with bass.
 
I started playing piano at four. I just picked up the bass at 18 though. It really depends on the kid.

This kid is definitely the youngest bass player I've seen. Four years old and he's already got an amazing sense of rhythm.

 
Dudes-- you guys are way too serious here. All a four month old kid is gonna do is get spittle on a bass! I know it's nice to be a loving Dad and all that. I'm a Dad too! Just wait till your kid says he hates the bass and music and all the crap you try to Jam down his throat and then he slams the bedroom door real hard and you go up and take it off the hinges. Then he has no door! Now that's some fun!
 
Thanks for all the input. I was joking about 4 months (sort of) but I don't want to ever deny him the opportunity to play an instrument. I like the idea of just letting him make noise and start to hear sounds and tones.

I also want him to ride a dirtbike at 2 so maybe I'm just trying to rush this childhood thing a bit. Let's credit it to bring a first time dad :)
 
I started playing acoustic guitar for my son when he was in the crib. By the time he was crawling, he would follow the sound and it would calm him when I played. When he turned 1 yr., I bought him a cheap 'disney' washburn, and he loved to play with it. He's 18 months now, and he mock strums his guitar when I play the my guitar for him. He even crawls behind my guitar and tries to either strum, or finger chords.
 
I showed interest in piano at age 3, and began lessons at age 4...Worked out fine for me. I did the Suzuki method for about 4 years, and more in depth classical training for another 10.

I didn't start playing bass until I was about 12 though.

At an early age, I would suggest finding a teacher of the Suzuki method. It does wonders for ear training, and keeps the lessons somewhat fun.

The bottom line is, don't force it.
 
My kids started playing with hand percussion instruments at about 4 years old. Later, I provided kid sized instruments and they chose what they were interested in. My 12yo plays drums, my 10 yo plays bass, and my 7 yo plays guitar.

As a group they can't play any songs together yet, but they are getting there. We keep our jam sessions fun and the "music" we make sounds like some really trippy 60s acid rock. I think the important thing right now for my younger two kids is just getting comfortable with their instuments.

The only mistake I've made is not having them take piano lessons. My 12 yo wants to get into the percussion section of his school band but he doesn't know any music theory. Even though he has been playing drums for seven years and can rock out on a full kit he's at a disadvantage to kids with some piano experience and a little rhythm.


Get 'em some music theory early on.
 
In my opinion, which most of you are basically saying, it really just depends on the individual. Victor Wooten's brothers and parents were all playing instruments, and music was like a religion to them. My dad was a guitarist and pushed me in that direction, but I just couldn't stay away from bass. Maybe it was the music I liked as a kid, but I just always felt rhythm and "groove", regardless of genre, so I knew I had to be a bassist.

I think you should expose them to every genre of music and every type of instrument (maybe with a little bias :D) and let them take off when they show initiative. Some kids might go right at it as soon as they can sit up, others might be in their 20's or older...it's different for everyone. However, I think most o us will agree that if they don't discover music in their own way on mostly their own terms, they probably won't find the passion that we all have for it.
 
so i started playing bass around 15 and always wished i would have started earlier. my son is almost 4 months old now..... so my question is when can they start learning and playing. i want to pick up a short scale pretty soon so when he starts sitting up on his own i can hold it and let him hear the sounds the strings make. he already watches my hands and fingers while i play. am i rushing this??
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What makes you so sure that he wants to play bass? Why rush it? Let him grow up doing things that kids do and let him choose when he can..