1. When you see a band and they have a lot of dead space between songs and then they are looking at each other asking which song to play next, does it lessen your opinion of them, even if you like the music?
Yes. This is the kind of stuff that separates professionals from armatures and hobbyists.
Some of that stuff will come with time and playing more. In the mean time, it's something to practice at.
I was in a band where we had "sister songs." If one song got played, the same song always got played after it. That way, no pause in the show. And you pick songs that work together, or maybe don't need tuning in between. Get creative with the set.
The whole band has got to be on the same page together and focused when on stage. One unit. A hand with (in your case) three fingers all functioning as one. The drummer should not have to have everyone turn around. You are all a few feet from each other, you finish a song together, and you all know what the next song is. You have to trust that your band mates are up there doing the same thing as you, so count the song and everyone will be ready to go.
Not sure what to say about the tuning thing. Heavier strings that don't go out of tune? Tune while you talk? Get a roadie? That's a rough one.
2. Our singer is the only guy that really looks the part. He has long hair, a giant beard and tattoos. He and I are both fatter dudes, not obese, but we definitely arent skinny. In a clique town like Austin I worry that we dont look grungy or rock star enough. Our drummer spikes his hair with gel and has one of those stripe neck beards that looks super lame. Im just wondering if our image is hurting us.
No. I would just say that you guys look fine. When in doubt, it's hard to go wrong with a black t-shirt / shirt and some black boots and jeans. Classic. Get a peacoat from navy surplus and you are set for winter too! Good place for boots too. Don't worry about being a "fatter dude." I would say just keep an eye on the drummer and make sure it doesn't turn into an over the top "costume." Unless the drummer is that type of dude, then you might want to let him run wild!
Keep it real, ya know. Don't worry about the skinny hipsters or cool kids. Keep rockin and let your heavy-ass grooves melt some hipster face!
All IMO of course. Your video was pretty awesome. Not a HUGE fan of your genre, but you guys rocked it... and that's the key. Good music. Listening to your recordings right now!




