I am glad to hear that the cab has a lot to do with the tone. I use two basses through the rig and it just sounds "sterile". The sansamp helped a ton, just not great yet. I do get a good sound at low levels but if I get any volume it just gets nasty. I do like both a clean sound and a nice warm tube sound. I really should go down to the GC and plug and play. Thanks for the info guys, just want to spent wise.
If it sounds good at low volume, then gets crappy, it could be either the speakers or the power amp. Probably the speakers, either crappy or blown.
If the head is an honest 450 w it should be adequate. Check if the amp is rated at 450 w at 4 ohms (typical) and see what the ohms rating of the cab is. If the cab is 8 ohms (typical), you're not getting the full 450 w. It probably only puts out 250-300 w @ 8ohm. And if the wattage rating of the head is not RMS, but peak power instaead, maybe cut that almost in half. In that case, you could possibly need an amp more than speakers. Which head model do you have, we can look it up online and give you a more definitive answer.
Given Behringer is not known to be quality stuff, you'll probably end up replacing both at some point, but better to replace the worst offender first if you can identify it.
Edit to add: Is this the BX4500H? 450w @4 ohms. No mention of RMS or Peak, or Program watts, so expect the worst. Be surprised if it puts out an honest 300 w without lots of distortion.
The 410 speaker is rated at 4 ohms, so at least you're getting the full power out of the amp. The bad news is that means you can't add another cab and run both, the amp won't stand for less than a 4 ohm load its already got with your existing 410.
Which brings up another dilemna... The head will put out less power at 8 ohm loads. So if you get an 8 ohm cab to replace the one you have, you'll be lucky to get 200 W clean watts out of the head, it may become the weak link at that point, and the speaker won't make much difference.
I might be tempted to switch my vote to get the amp first. Its too close to really call.
I'd drag my stuff to GC and try cabs with the head, and other heads with your cab to see which is holding you back the most.
Randy