I hear you OP!
I seriously have trouble hearing intervals. I can hear that the song is about to change chord but most of the time I couldn't tell you what that chord is without some trial and error in finding the chord and generally have to learn the chord progression by playing it over and over unless it's a basic three or four chord progression.
I truly believe that I just don't have a good enough ear. As an example, when playing fretless I really have to keep an eye on my side dots to make sure I'm in the right general area. I can hear when a note is even just a little off but rarely can I tell if I'm a little sharp or flat without looking at my side dots. And this is after literally putting in hundreds of hours of fretless playing. I've tried not looking at the fingerboard or playing in the dark and it is just so frustrating that I revert back to watching what I'm doing.
This has probably been the best thing for helping me improve a little. I now chart most songs using scale degree numbers like this above but I'll also add a little "m" for the minor chords in the progression. This way once I've learned a song I can play it in any key a lot easier and I am hearing those intervals a little better..... but I'm still pretty crap at it.
I seriously have trouble hearing intervals. I can hear that the song is about to change chord but most of the time I couldn't tell you what that chord is without some trial and error in finding the chord and generally have to learn the chord progression by playing it over and over unless it's a basic three or four chord progression.
I truly believe that I just don't have a good enough ear. As an example, when playing fretless I really have to keep an eye on my side dots to make sure I'm in the right general area. I can hear when a note is even just a little off but rarely can I tell if I'm a little sharp or flat without looking at my side dots. And this is after literally putting in hundreds of hours of fretless playing. I've tried not looking at the fingerboard or playing in the dark and it is just so frustrating that I revert back to watching what I'm doing.
One thing that can help is listening to a 3 chord song, and just write down the chords in numbers. For example; If the song is in C, that's 1, F is 4, and G is 5. You most likely know this and forgive my over simplification... but just listen for those 3 chords and hear the difference, and listen intently for the progression to resolve to 1.
This has probably been the best thing for helping me improve a little. I now chart most songs using scale degree numbers like this above but I'll also add a little "m" for the minor chords in the progression. This way once I've learned a song I can play it in any key a lot easier and I am hearing those intervals a little better..... but I'm still pretty crap at it.
