I hate to tell you this Blue but as long as you go out and keep looking for these "younger" pop rock bands you might as well get used to it. I Dont know about you but I have no time for that stuff. I want to play with mature, experienced players who are dedicated and wont waste my time.
Well just to expand, one of the bands was not so young the guys were in their 40s and the lead guy was 50. They didn;t tell me you had to look like a local Red neck to get in with them.