You know this start your own band stuff is starting to tick me off.
A lot of us are bass players, not band leaders or band starters. That is a completely different skill set.
I am sure there are some of us that are good at it and can do both. Some of us can't and don't want to start a band.
I mean, I would love to, put all the material together, organize find the right cats to play with. Thing is, I know I can't do that kind of stuff.
You don't have to be the bandleader to start a band. Find a drummer and/or guitar player and just jam for a while. If you can't write maybe the other guy can and if you're forced to write then maybe you'll find that with a little practice you're good at it.
All I'm saying is don't always look to join a band missing a bass player... Building one from the ground up can be awesome if you hold out for the right people.