In loving memory of XavierG / "X-Man"

Discussion in 'In Memoriam' started by KatieG, Jun 17, 2019.

  1. KatieG

    KatieG

    Jun 17, 2019
    It is with great sadness that I announce the passing of my Dad (username: XavierG) on October 4, 2018.

    He spent many years on this forum discussing one of his greatest passions and thoroughly enjoyed the sense of community he found here.
     
  2. kesslari

    kesslari Groovin' with the Fusion Cats Staff Member Gold Supporting Member

    Dec 21, 2007
    Santa Cruz Mtns, California
    Lark in the Morning Instructional Videos; Audix Microphones
    I'm sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I hope that time is allowing you and your family to heal from the grief, and that his memory is with you in joy.
     
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  3. Chris Fitzgerald

    Chris Fitzgerald Student of Life Staff Member Administrator Gold Supporting Member

    Oct 19, 2000
    Louisville, KY
    Your father was very kind to me back in the days when I first joined almost 19 years ago, and generously helped me with technological issues a number of times. I will remember him well. RIP Xavier.
     
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  4. two fingers

    two fingers Opinionated blowhard. But not mad about it. Inactive

    Feb 7, 2005
    Eastern NC USA
    :(

    Thank you for you contribution to this community sir. Fly on in peace.

    And thank you for letting us know, Katie. Prayers out to your family.
     
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  5. Joshua

    Joshua WJWJr Staff Member Gold Supporting Member

    Aug 23, 2000
    Connecticut
    I remember him, too. RIP, X-man.
     
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  6. DirtDog

    DirtDog

    Jun 7, 2002
    The Deep North
    RIP XavierG.
     
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  7. cm3ohana

    cm3ohana Supporting Member

    Aug 1, 2005
    I'm sorry to hear about your Dad, KatieG. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
     
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  8. Ed Fuqua

    Ed Fuqua

    Dec 13, 1999
    Columbia SC
    Chuck Sher publishes my book, WALKING BASSICS:The Fundamentals of Jazz Bass Playing.
    I'm so sorry to hear. Please know that I held your dad in high esteem.
     
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  9. Mike N

    Mike N Missing the old TB Staff Member Gold Supporting Member

    Jan 28, 2001
    Spencerport, New York
    RIP, XavierG.
     
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  10. beaglesandbass

    beaglesandbass Think first, then post? Staff Member Gold Supporting Member Supporting Member

    Aug 14, 2001
    Philly Suburbs
    Oh no. I'm sorry to hear Katie. I remember him being a co-moderator with me in the early days of the forum. He was always a great guy when I talked to him.
     
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  11. HeavyDuty

    HeavyDuty Supporting Curmudgeon Staff Member Gold Supporting Member

    Jun 26, 2000
    Central Texas
    I fondly remember you dad, Katie. My condolences...
     
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  12. Ryan L.

    Ryan L. Moderator Staff Member Gold Supporting Member Supporting Member

    Aug 7, 2000
    West Fargo, ND
    I remember him well. RIP.
     
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  13. Oh, man, what terrible news!

    I was quite friendly with your father, Katie.

    He was one of the first members here who actually encouraged my corny joke telling. ;)

    And when he told me he was involved with helping a school in your area with musical instruments, I sent him a few.

    We were supposed to meet here in New York about 15 years ago, but I forget what happened; whether our schedules conflicted or the trip was cancelled. Either way, we never met in person, and I regret this.

    And he talked about how much he loved his family often.

    I am going to miss your father, Katie, he was a good man.

    The world is a poorer place for him not being here.

    I hope you and your family have found peace with his passing.

    Rest in Peace, Xavier, my friend. :(

    Michael Jewels
     
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  14. kobass

    kobass Supporting Member

    Nov 3, 2003
    Outside Boston
    Katie, So sorry to hear of this. I remember your dad as well.

    RIP Xavier.
     
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  15. smperry

    smperry Administrator Staff Member Administrator Gold Supporting Member

    Nov 3, 2003
    Bay Area, CA
    I'm so sorry to hear this! XavierG was such a great presence in the forums, and was very kind to me personally in the early days of the forum. We chatted a bit offline too. Xavier was such a genuine and kind person.

    Thinking of you and your family at this time KatieG.
     
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  16. So sorry for your loss, @KatieG . It’s our loss, too.

    RIP Xavier. :(
     
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  17. Yogi Bear

    Yogi Bear

    Aug 14, 2000
    So sorry to hear this. XG was a great guy and someone I fondly remember speaking with him "back in the day" here on TB. My condolences.
     
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  18. MJ5150

    MJ5150 Moderator Staff Member Gold Supporting Member

    Apr 12, 2001
    Olympia, WA
    Always helpful and friendly. That's how I'll remember Xavier. Your father was a good man Katie.

    -Mike
     
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  19. KatieG

    KatieG

    Jun 17, 2019
    Thank you to everyone for your kind words. I am glad to know that he had so many friends both online and offline who enjoyed having him around. He will be missed dearly.