I have yet to meet anyone on bandmix. I have a paid account and have sent messages and get no replies. It is mostly my area. Our musician pool is pretty slim and nobody networks. The good players are either in bands or have a job/wife/kid preventing them from playing. I have been considering moving to a city with a bigger music scene. I am fortunate to have a very flexible work schedule, which allows me to practice and gig when I want.