My goodness - I pretty much get what I want....I don't need permission...Never understood this idea that having to lie to your spouse is a fun thing. I sure wouldn't want to be in a marriage with someone who behaved like this - on either end. I don't want to be lied to, and I don't want to be married to someone who I would feel I have to lie to in order to keep the peace.
I also don't want to be the irresponsible person in the marriage spending money if we don't have it. I think at best these are silly jokes with their roots in another era.
My wife and I have a mutual respect that we don't question each other's buying habits as long as it doesn't effect our monthly required outcome.....my bass acquisitions are a little more these days because of my youtube channel...what I stated was a joke, a textual meme if you will..........I'm hoping there are folks who read that post and find the humor that was intended in it